Saturday, June 3rd, 2006...10:18 pm
Hurtful Words
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You know the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me!” tends to be true to a point! That point has been crossed tonight! Someone very dear to me really hurt me by saying a few things which that person really meant! Usually, people can say extremely horrid things to me and I would take it with a grain of salt but not tonight! That wasn’t the case today!
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You know the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me!” tends to be true to a point! That point has been crossed tonight! Someone very dear to me really hurt me by saying a few things which that person really meant! Usually, people can say extremely horrid things to me and I would take it with a grain of salt but not tonight! That wasn’t the case today!
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I am currently devastated and was for the last two hour because of what was said to me and I can’t get over it! Seems like it’s always the person that’s closest to you or the person you least expect to hurt you that causes you most of the pain you will ever feel even though if it is just words!
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June 3rd, 2006 at 11:07 pm
sadly i understand what you mean…happened to me once in a while…all i have to say is express it out…and then forget the words…but realisticly it will always replay itself in your mind…i’ve done so myself….all i can say to cheer you up is smile and words can be meaningless from the ones you dont know but they are meaningful from the ones that leave you in pain…hmm come to think of it that wasnt cheerful…here we go again hope this helps you out….smile words may seem to break your spirits but your smile wakes the presence
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June 3rd, 2006 at 11:10 pm
so sorry to hear that
hmm maybe you’ll feel better just give it some time
June 3rd, 2006 at 11:11 pm
*Huuug*
Every cloud has a silver lining. Look deeper into the whole matter, i’m sure there is something to learn
June 3rd, 2006 at 11:19 pm
Your Battlefield: Thanks for trying!
Laialy_Q8: I’m thinking of doing something extremely drastic cause of what was said!
Delicately Realistic: I’m trying to but I just can’t! What was said was extremely mean and the person who said it wasn’t being considerate as to what I had to go through the past few days!
June 3rd, 2006 at 11:52 pm
Let’s see, this happened to me like over 5 times and sadly enough I never learn, but pretty sooon I will get to a point where nothing will hurt when its said, but actually urgh :/
Anywho I’m sorry to read this that is.. and hopefully tomorrow will bring you some sunshine
June 4th, 2006 at 12:11 am
People are mean.
June 4th, 2006 at 1:40 am
It wasnt me!!!
Just teasing… i hear u… of course its the ones dearest to u who hurt u most and it takes longer to get over them.
i really dont know what the issue so all i can say…. or actually do …. is the following:
/me gives stallion the largest hug he can take.
June 4th, 2006 at 2:18 am
I know how does it feel man
U’ll be over it soon enshalah it will just take sometime to forget it
What can we do with these people… So rude man so get over it soon
June 4th, 2006 at 6:13 am
Jacqui: No change yet!
True Faith: True!
Rampurple: I know it wasn’t you but thanks for the hug!
Zizotime: Inshallah!
June 4th, 2006 at 8:51 am
Welcome to the club
1-at least it was said to your face not behind your back
2-no one has the rite to insult you,,,
3-if they were close to you or you to them they would not have done that you, there are other ways to convey things
4-cheer up and time will heal everything
5-surround your self with positive ppl
sorry that your upset
June 4th, 2006 at 9:11 am
If you wanna talk, just let me know
I’m here. Hopefully u feel better soon, and hope u dont do anything drastic that u will regret (as u replied back to Laialy_Q8). Cheer up bro.
June 4th, 2006 at 9:25 am
sometimes what people say shouldn’t mattter at all
June 4th, 2006 at 10:15 am
Mosan Mosan: I can surround myself with a positive atmosphere but that won’t help my inner feelings! The damage is deep! I might act happy and pleasant amongst others but alone I’m drowning in emotional turmoil!
JC: Actually what I am thinking of doing is extremely drastic on my part but I don’t know!
Laialy_Q8: Usually what people say doesn’t bother me! I always have two phrases ready about such things which are:
“Illi mo 3ajba, khal i6ig rasa 3a6ofa”
OR
“6aga or 6agha midfa3″
But this situation is totally different!
June 4th, 2006 at 10:21 am
I hope u feel better soon, but you really have move on.. I know how you feel, but the problem is you just have to move on, I’ve been hurt a few times and it sucks.. the only way around it is to move on and try something you.. keeping your self preoccupied!! Its the only way that I have found that works.. o inshalla you get out of this as well.
June 4th, 2006 at 10:34 am
Marzouq: I’m not talking about a gf! I’m talking about a family member!
June 4th, 2006 at 11:48 am
Stallion .. 7aji .. don’t do anything drastic, your will end up regretting it (trust me). Go on a vacation, think things over .. then make the correct choice. Itha kilish kilish, yabeela bahrain.
June 4th, 2006 at 11:50 am
K the Kuwaiti: shino Bahrain? I’m leaving to the US!
P As for the issue at hand I still don’t know what to do!
June 4th, 2006 at 1:44 pm
stallion
Imeant avoid nagative ppl and sarround your self with positive ppl in general
Baharian is the best place to go 4 a weekend and forget abt everything =,,,,, I love it
and sorry 2 know its a family member…
TIME
June 4th, 2006 at 1:52 pm
Mosan Mosan: I know what you meant! As for Bahrain, you are right about it being a good place to go for the weekend but I am going to a better place for the week and that’s Washington DC and PA!
June 4th, 2006 at 2:56 pm
I actually went through this with people who looking back at things now, thought were my best friends. They say: “keep friends close but enemies closer”, true! With a friend, mafi boundaries and they know you inside out & if that friendship was built on frail roots, it will snap with the first pressure it encounters. Just take it easy, think of it as their loss and just move on!
June 4th, 2006 at 3:01 pm
I actually went through this with people who looking back at things now, thought were my best friends. They say: “keep friends close but enemies closer”, true! With a friend, mafi boundaries and they know you inside out & if that friendship was built on frail roots, it will snap with the first pressure it encounters. Just take it easy, think of it as their loss and just move on and avoid people who in the name of firendship, think they can abuse n’ hurt you.
June 4th, 2006 at 3:07 pm
chikapappi@yahoo.com: Welcome to my blog and as for your advice, I thank you for it but I have to admit it will be hard for me to move on because of the way the person expressed the words!
Anonymous: I’m guessing you and chikapappi@yahoo.com are the same person and again I would like to thank you!
June 4th, 2006 at 4:05 pm
Yup, it’s me! Mistake.. sorry!
What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger
Ciao
June 4th, 2006 at 4:14 pm
Anonymous: No problem! Thanks for coming back! I would also like to thank you for the great words as well!
June 4th, 2006 at 5:38 pm
7asa fek, bes ilwa7id shesawy? Most people are insensitive to those people that are most sensitive to other peoples feelings. Why?
I don’t know why.
June 4th, 2006 at 10:08 pm
Delicately Realistic said: But family members should hear out what people have to say and not just hurt others! I tried explaining my situation but the person wouldn’t hear me out and other people who knew my situation tried to inform the person as well as other and everyone heard what I had to go through except for the person who did all the hurting!
June 5th, 2006 at 10:02 pm
So true =( hurtful words kateer muzain !
June 7th, 2006 at 4:12 am
Anonymous: Soo true!
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